If you think you should be much further in life and in your business, if you feel stuck and are hustling to get where you think you should already be, keep watching . What I am going to demonstrate here will change your life.

You probably want to be able to do things, you were inspired by others, they give you hope, that you, too can get there they are. You have role models, mentors, and of course you are disciplined, you work like crazy and put all your energy in it. Not only that, but you constantly learn, you follow the instructions, BUT, why after all these efforts and time and money invested, you are not getting even close?

I know exactly how you feel. I have been there and luckily, I am at this place less and less. Because I understood something.

It’s all about trauma and Divine timing.

Let me demonstrate this with a movement, where I learned this long ago. I could, at that point in time, not really understand, and even less explain, what happened.

At that point in time, businesswise, I was only interested in performing and teaching belly dance. And there was this one movement, I just could not do for 7 years (!!!) . I became obsessed with it.

I have to say, and that is important, because I know that so many women feel that if they are not able to know it all, do it all, they will not even start (IS THIS YOU?) , this did not stop me from teaching this movement. I could better explain it, even if I could not yet do it. And you know what? It was no problem. I told my students, that this is a movement I do not yet master. I told them that I did not know why.

So this movement is called “Shimmy” and it requires to let go, it requires to become 100% grounded and free in your hip. So my dance “gurus” all taught me to let go in the hip, to shake the hip. But the hip was a place where I could not let go. I would very quickly get to be into control.

So one day, I went to this workshop with this crazy but very famous Belly Dance teacher. She taught a choreography and every movement came with a Shimmy. After 2 days I was completely, completely exhausted. No longer able to resist, to control. Something in my mind and being just let go. And this is how I could do my first real loose Shimmy. And from that point onto, I could do all kind of Shimmies, which I show you here in the video.

And something else totally changed. Now, I can teach Shimmies to everybody like in 1 minute. I understood where the problem is.

The problem is in your mind. The mind who wants to protect you from possible harm and therefore wants to control. Thus, it will not let you let go.

You cannot win with your subconscious mind. But you can find a way. It’s super easy. Once you know this secret, and you find how to do it, your business and your life will speed up without pushing and struggling.

Here’s how to do it. Do this your business, and you will step off the struggle bus and stop beating yourself up.

Repeat after me and make it your new belief: All comes to me in Devine timing

Identify the blockage, but don’t let it stop you. You are fantastic in so many other areas

Practice, practice, practice. Rinse and repeat

You being stuck does not mean anything about you. You are learning.

Have fun, enjoy anything else and trust there is a good reason for this blockage to be there

This blockage is teaching you something. You’ll know after you’ve learned the lessons. Accept not to know for now

Whatever it is, dance it out, give it a form, so you can SEE it.

Get skilled help. A good coach or therapist will see what happens and can help you resolve the not much quicker as if you tried to do it all by yourself

I recommend the Healy to everyone. It’s a device which helps you higher your vibration. And hiring your vibrations comes equally like hiring your perspective. You need to understand that blockages in our body come most of the time from former traumatic experiences. It does not have to be a big trauma. It can be one second of your brain interpreting the reality as dangerous. That’s enough.

Come to my “Shandora - Dance your life” classes or retreats and apply everything you learn here into your business and every day life. My method Shandora is the bridge I created to allow you to break free, connect to your feminine power, by having fun, experiencing it first in your body, expressing it in the safe and protected space of your sisterhood circle, so you can quantum leap your life.

If you are interested in working with me, dm me.

Transcript:

Do you think you should be at point B you should be much further in your life than you

are now? If so then keep watching what I'm going to demonstrate here is literally change your life.

so you probably have been inspired by a mentor, a role model or by perhaps even somebody just

you saw randomly to do something and you wanted to do the same thing and you sit on the road to

go and do this and you have been so disciplined you helped learn you have these mentors and you

did everything they told perfectly and perhaps you are in the community where everybody else looks

like to you is already so much forever and just you you are not getting there and why are you not

getting there and how do you feel perhaps secretly not telling anybody suffering just by yourself

if this is something so let me show what I have learned the lesson here

is that it is all about former trauma and it is about Divine timing so and I I took

notes because there are so many things I want to say about it and I don't want to forget a piece

so what happened to me so I have been a belly dance teacher for my whole life and the only thing I was

interested in that point was belly dancing so let me show you something there was this one movement

that I just just could not do and the movement is called shimmy so I put on let me see if you can

see my hip actually and I demonstrate what I want to say here with this shimmy with this movement

and perhaps you know how to do it but if not then just try it with me so the shimmy is like this

you shake your hip and you can move around with it anything is completely loose huh

this is the movement I could not do this movement for seven years

and I had done so many workshops I had had so many teachers fantastic the best of the

best teachers and I just couldn't do it but here's the thing which is very important please

listen this did not stop me from teaching belly dance I teach belly dance and what I also did

I told them listen I explained how it goes everything I learned from my teachers do this

and so many people so many students of mine they could do the shimmy and

others got stuck like I was I could do the shimmy like you know like like this

like tight and then for one minute and then I would pick it completely in the control

so I told my students just to listen this and this and you can do the shimmy and I am not yet

able to do the shimmy seven years I got obsessed with it the shimmy and you I'll explain at the

end how this relates to your life but all to your business just hold on so the shimmy is all about

being grounded and letting go letting go and the people and my teachers they told me let's go in

the hip I could not let go in my head my hip was a place perhaps for my unconscious mind where it was

dangerous to let go so I could not reason my thing and I could not discipline myself to it seven

years I have been so obsessed I've been doing it every day I was working in office I would go to

the photocopy machine and I would try to do the shiny I would go to the toilet I would try to do

the shimmy I would go to so many workshops going and pushing and trying so hard why not me and I

was obsessed it took a lot of energy and at where I did not go go was I'll never be able to do it

I just learned this from being very disciplined dancer that you have to practice practice practice

so one day this is an important thing because I'll tell you this is how we all do the thing do it

one day I went to this crazy woman to the workshop and she was doing all the movements

fantastic but every movement had a shimmy every I was like I was like oh I cannot it's not possible

catching not just one movement without with shimmy so shimmy is this movement and you can

combine it you can walk with it you can do everything with the shimmy so I was like oh

two days like eight hours a day at the end I was so exhausted so burnt out

I could just know we're all in my mind could no longer be in the control

and this is the moment doesn't it this is the moment where my mind let go something

and for the first time after seven years in my life I could do this movement without the control

so I had to go through a sort of complete burnout in my mind in my body so so tired to

be able to let go so how often have you been able to let go because you were struggling

you was pushing you were thinking overthinking doing everything and it just did not work why

because you cannot fight your subconscious mind it is there to protect you from something which mind

it which subconscious mind considers as dangerous for you and it doesn't have because you can search

through therapy for ages I did and you can search for a big thing and you know what it is perhaps

just one second of your mind interpreting the reality as dangerous so the beautiful thing

the beautiful thing which then happened is that from this point on to I am now and have been

since then able not only to do the normal shimmy I can do the shimmy with combined with movements

and I can explain I can teach you to do this in one second now my students don't get stuck

because what I understood and I'll give you 10 points at the end which you can transfer in your

business and in your life and if you do this it is definitely the last time you will struggle so much

so what I understood so for my subconscious mind the problem was in my hip yes was here letting get

loose so what I'm gonna do we have a lot of fun dancing yes I tell my students to shake the knees

just do this with your knees and don't even one second talk about the shimmy the hip because it's

just a consequence -is a consequence from something happening from grounding and happening

with your knees so this is the movement but what I want to and I'll put on my pullover again it's

so good here in Belgium let me just do this and also have my notes so I can tell you but

so how does this relate to business and how does this relate to your life

perhaps you can already see it how awful do we oops how often do we push and struggle and most

of the time isn't it we are getting into control we wondered we are like I I like wanting to win

it but there are some things that you you can learn this if you do belly dance or if you

experience something like this you learn it that something inside just has to let go and it is not

about pushing it is about letting go it's about allowing it's about something very sweet this

is the energy life of love and when you want to be this in this feminine energy in this Elegance

you cannot push and control and be disciplined you cannot even work your way to it like this

it is completely different so from the belly dance of course I could learn this then I was

only interested in dancing and I was so happy in this protected and very special place where I was

not me I was good run the dancer and this identity was an identity where I was just happy I was just

having fun feeling beautiful feeling powerful and also as a teacher I could give back

so as I just said and let me route this up because I have the idea where I want to go with that

so the problem was as I said I got stuck in one point in my body as we can get stuck if you have a

business perhaps you can do perfect launches but you can then not sell or perhaps you are super

for selling no problem or talking about money or investing you have it all figured out but there is

one blockage and if there is one and you push and push and you beat yourself up then your business

will not Thrive your relationships will not Thrive what you do in one place you do it everywhere so

when I understood that I could just explain to my students to move the the knees and the consequence

would be letting down in the hip because I did not even say the word hip something very magic unfolds

and it is like this in our life not just watching with somebody's making a comment okay this is how

it goes also in our business so I have several 10 points which I want to give you here if you apply

these 10 points to your life to your business then they're struggling and feeling stuck and beating

yourself up will definitely stop let me see if I had forgotten something I wanted to I know

this is this is it this is where we go so first point repeat after me and make it your belief

all comes in divine timing to me if it does there is no problem with me being on this

path of learning is there patent identify the blockage and don't let this blockage stop you

from being in your business being your wonderful self you have so many gifts roll them all out give

them all and even if you know the blockage you can just say listen this is the one thing I can

explain it perfectly to you because I have been struggling it with it for so many times I can

explain it perhaps my explanation is enough for you so you can do it I cannot get to it

yes just just don't let the blockage stop you the next Point practice practice practice

and don't make it is this the fourth point don't make it mean anything yes

don't make it mean anything about you it doesn't mean you are worth it not worthy it doesn't mean

that you will never get there make it mean zero nothing the next thing which have fun and enjoy

anything else even if you get obsessed enjoy still the rest and joy enjoy and be in peace with it

oh yeah their blockage is teaching you something believe it know that the blockage is there for

a good reason it is teaching you something and be totally okay with it that you don't

understand the lesson yet you know once you the blockage disappeared and the then with

this blockage what you learned on your path can you imagine for me seven years

I learned so much I will tell you what I also learned about myself I learned about myself that

I am a hippo I am able to be if I really want something I'm so so so able to be consistent

and this is helping me this is helping me now this thing is like 20 years ago it's so much

helping me so admit and and and yes just be in this place of Peace okay I'm struggling I have

this blockage it is teaching me something and I will know five divided timing so uh number seven

dense it out I'm a big fan of dance if you are my advice is dance it out if you dance a blockage so

I'm not talking about a movement you see me like you I'm talking about if you have a blockage with

let's say you have a blockage with selling you have a blockage with offering your wonderful gifts

and putting the price on it and asking for people to give the energy back um if you say in your mind

I cannot sell anything then let's dance this and see how it looks like because when you dance it

what form does it have does it have a form like anger does it have a form like pushing

does it have a form like fear which is the form if you could dance it out what

is the energy and then when you do this it's like you don't identify any longer with it

it's like oh I can I can see something and if you need get me on to have a look I am

very very very skilled as a somatic coach to help you with this but do this so eight

comes with the same what I'm just saying get skilled help a skilled coach a skilled therapist

will be able because she is not you she or he is not you will be able to have a distance to

see what is happening and then give you mirror you back when you have a mirror like dancing it

out is the kind of mirror when you have a mirror you don't need much you can just have to be in a

loving protected space to be able to see yourself and love yourself in this mirror and understand

the blockage and then so you get there much quicker you don't want to stay seven years with

a blockage do you sell get the skilled help um and the ninth so how much is nine the ninth point is I

recommend you the Healy here it is the healing the Healy is a bioresonance device which will help you

higher your vibrations with frequencies it comes with scans we will scan your bioenergetic field

see the blockages and then we'll give you the frequencies you need for higher your vibrations

and higher your vibrations is like exactly getting in another Point another place where you do have a

higher perspective and then when you see this from the higher perspective as for me it was my knees

was another perspective then I can let go where I have to let go isn't it so the last thing the

10th thing I want to share with you and invite you is come to my shandora that is your life

classes because this is exactly what I figured out I developed this method as a bridge

shandora is a method where you will experience your feminine power you will experience this

letting go and you will be in a sacred Sisterhood where you can express things and then you do have

again this mirror when the words are spoken then they are outside of you then people can hear we

can all connect and we all are the same we do have the same struggles so when you come to my

shandora dance your life classes you will get the experience in your body and one it is experience

we ride the subconscious story we do and when it is done it is somewhere in your body like a memory

you can hold on this is the bridge to your life this is the bridge to your business because if

you know how to do it in dance you can then that I teach it you can bridge this to your business as

we just did as I just explained it here with the shimmy I hope you can relate so if you

are interested in doing this Quantum Leap in your business at doing the different blockages getting

free then DM me let's have a talk let's see what best fits for you because I do of course have the

Shandora dance your life classes online offline but I also do healing sessions in the healing

sessions where I will do these somatic coachings with you where we can stand there and move and

I can just teach you and I can see you and help you undo the blockages, break free and have your

Quantum Leap this is what I wish for you and if you are interested then just DM me and let's

have this wonderful talk I wish you a wonderful day thank you for listening please comment under

my video If you see the replay comment if this is something you can relate to have you been in

Burnout have you realized that feeling stuck and wanting to be in point B and beating yourself up

doesn't help you and that you are doing everything and the others out getting there you are not and

how and why and how you makes you feel if you go there with fun then it will be much quicker so put

a comment I will then answer the comments thank you very much and see you very soon

Do you think you should be much further in life?

Gudrun Mahlberg